When your own mother rejects you
When your own mother rejects you
When your own mother rejects you
When your own mother rejects you
When your own mother rejects you
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When your own mother rejects you
This is a post for a guy who works in my office. He doesn't even know that i am trying to raise funds for him and neither has he asked for a single penny. Hi name is "Dil".
Start-Forced to give all his money -
He works in my office as an office boy at a very minimal salary. And till date has given every penny of his salary to his mother without asking a question. In-return he gets food and shelter from her. So he has no saving of his own. (Unfortunately his father died when he was born. )
Forced to get Married-
Last year, his mother forced him to get married (at the age of 20) so that they can have someone at home who can cook for them. Which was disgusting, but the poor guy didn't have a say in it. So he got married to a 18 year old girl from another village.
Soon, mother forced her to do all the chores of the house and pressurized her to cook and clean for everyone in the family. she did that for a year and started crying every night. But Dil as a good husband and son consoled her everynight and took shit from his mother.
Issues started developing-
Recently his mother and wife got into a fight (instigated by his mother) and he was again forced to send the wife back to her village where all the seniors of the village intervened and decided to keep them separated for 2 years.
Mother's reaction-
Mother said, she is your wife and your life, i am not concerned. And gave up on him completely.
Shame-
Now mother doesnt even ask him for food, the poor guy comes to office empty stomach and sleeps empty stomach. He took loans from different people to help family build a house in village (which is on mother's name) so all his salary goes to repaying the loan now. When i came to know about his food issues, i started giving him food every day and paying for his dinner. Last night when i didnt have money, i gave him my food that i got from home to office. He had it and was crying all the way. And i will continue to support him as far food is concerned.
Now i want him (and you would also agree) to rent out a place and start living alone and start living for himself for a change. and since all his money goes in repaying the loan, he is unable to do this.
There was a time when he use to laugh and make jokes in office all the time. Now he sits in a corner, looking into his mobile thinking ways to fix un fixable things.
I think its the basic requirement of life to help others and this guy helped his family and in return family trashed him.
Now his mother has told him to get out of the house and look for himself. So basically first she forced him to marry, then forced him to separate, then forced him to pay for the house construction and now left him high and dry.
The money you give:
Will support him to rent out a house, pay for utilities and pay for his food for a year. Till then his loans would be done with and he can continue living a respectful life.
I dont want to emotionally blackmail you. but its wisely said, a candle looses nothing by lighting another candle. I would pledge you to light a candle in his life so that he can regain trust in humanity.
God Bless you all
Thanks
Chandan Wadhwa